Clinically reviewed by Alison Hayman, PT and Ariel Wynne, PT
If you've ever described your pelvic area as feeling “clenched”, “tight,” “tense,” or just off, you're not alone and you may be dealing with something called a hypertonic pelvic floor.
It’s not something many of us learned about in health class, but understanding your pelvic floor muscles (and how they can become overactive) can make a world of difference when it comes to pain, urinary function, bowel movements, sex, and even breathing.
Let’s break down what a hypertonic pelvic floor actually is, how to spot it, and what to do about it.
A hypertonic pelvic floor means the muscles in your pelvic area are too tight and don’t relax the way they should. It’s very different from a weak pelvic floor, which is what most people think of when they hear “pelvic floor issues.”
“Sometimes patients think a hypertonic pelvic floor means it's too strong.” Ariel Wynne, PT tells us. “But a tight muscle is never a strong muscle.”
Your pelvic floor muscles need to relax and “open the door” to let things in and out. When your pelvic floor muscles are having trouble relaxing, it can lead to:
Your pelvic floor supports organs like your bladder, uterus, and rectum. When those muscles have too much muscle tone or tension, things can start to feel really uncomfortable.
There isn’t always one clear cause, but several common culprits can contribute to pelvic floor dysfunction.
Believe it or not, stress can live in your pelvic floor. Just like we hold tension in our shoulders or jaw, we can clench down in the pelvic area without realizing it.
For pregnant or postpartum people, this kind of subconscious gripping can be tied to:
Even if you're not consciously stressed, your body might still be acting like it is.
During pregnancy, your body goes through major physical shifts. As your belly grows, your posture changes and your core (including your pelvic floor) works harder to support the growing load. Some people unconsciously brace or grip their pelvic muscles for stability–especially if they're dealing with pelvic pain, round ligament discomfort, or a sense of pressure.
After birth, whether you had a vaginal delivery or a C-section, the pelvic floor can become dysregulated. For some, the instinct to “protect” or guard the area leads to clenching. For others, scar tissue, healing episiotomies, or birth trauma can contribute to long-term tension.
Kegels can be helpful in pregnancy and postpartum, but doing them without balancing through relaxation or proper guidance may lead to overactivity.
A lot of pregnant people are told to “start strengthening now,” and new parents may rush back into Kegels to “bounce back.” But if your pelvic floor muscles are already clenched, adding more tension through repeated contractions can make symptoms worse.
Learning when to relax the pelvic floor is just as important as learning to engage it.
Chronic constipation or straining with bowel movements can lead to a hypertonic pelvic floor over time. This can be especially common in:
Other chronic pelvic conditions, such as IBS, endometriosis, or interstitial cystitis, can cause the body to stay in a state of guarding or protective tension, which often shows up in the pelvic floor.
Injuries to the pelvic area, either current or past, can impact the pelvic floor. In the pregnancy and postpartum context, this might include:
Even postural changes from holding or nursing a baby can lead to pelvic tension if your muscles are compensating in unhealthy ways.
You might not immediately connect pelvic floor tension to the symptoms you’re experiencing– but once you know what to look for, the pattern becomes clearer.
Common symptoms include:
The good news? There are really effective ways to treat a hypertonic pelvic floor, and they don’t require surgery or medication.
Working with a pelvic floor physical therapist is the gold standard. These are specialists trained to evaluate your muscles internally and externally. Treatment may include:
Pelvic floor physical therapy is typically covered by insurance, making it an effective and affordable treatment.
Deep belly breathing helps calm the nervous system and physically relax the pelvic floor. Try lying on your back with your knees bent and placing a hand on your belly. As you inhale through your nose, let your belly rise. Exhale slowly through your mouth and feel your belly fall.
Gentle yoga poses like Happy Baby, Child’s Pose, or Deep Squat (Malasana) can encourage lengthening and release in the pelvic floor. Skip anything that involves holding tension or over-tightening your core.
Contrary to popular belief, more Kegels aren’t always better. If your pelvic floor is already too tight, Kegel exercises could make things worse. Your physical therapist can help you learn how to relax and coordinate those muscles properly.
If you're dealing with IBS, painful sex, urinary incontinence, or chronic pain, treating those conditions alongside your pelvic floor dysfunction is essential. This is where a whole-body, integrative approach really matters.
If any of this sounds familiar, know this: you're not broken, and you're not alone. Hypertonic pelvic floor dysfunction is common, treatable, and nothing to be ashamed of. Understanding what’s going on in your body is the first step to feeling better and getting back to the activities and experiences that matter to you.
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